本書(shū)結(jié)合作者十多年來(lái)從事大學(xué)生就業(yè)服務(wù)與教學(xué)一線的工作經(jīng)歷,提煉了30個(gè)容易令大學(xué)生困惑的就業(yè)問(wèn)題,將與應(yīng)屆生就業(yè)緊密相關(guān)的大學(xué)與就業(yè)求職準(zhǔn)備初入職場(chǎng)三個(gè)模塊分別予以闡述。內(nèi)容涵蓋怎樣找到自己的優(yōu)勢(shì)、如何處理學(xué)校及專業(yè)與就業(yè)的關(guān)系、怎樣有針對(duì)性地準(zhǔn)備就業(yè)、怎么進(jìn)行就業(yè)選擇、初入職場(chǎng)如何應(yīng)對(duì)等,并結(jié)合真實(shí)案例進(jìn)行解讀,且輔以插圖,可讀性較強(qiáng)。本書(shū)可供大學(xué)生自學(xué),亦可供就業(yè)指導(dǎo)工作者參考。
本書(shū)有真實(shí)貼切的案例、直觀生動(dòng)的插圖,有作者十余年就業(yè)指導(dǎo)實(shí)踐積累的智慧,以答疑解惑的方式剖析大學(xué)生就業(yè)的難點(diǎn),是一本接地氣的就業(yè)指南。
朱德庸先生說(shuō):做自己喜歡的事情,那是一種幸福;喜歡自己做的事,那是一種惜福,如果我們成不了幸福的人,至少可以做一個(gè)惜福的人。回想起來(lái),在不知不覺(jué)陪伴中,我與一屆又一屆畢業(yè)生走過(guò)了十四年,對(duì)于日益嚴(yán)峻的就業(yè)形勢(shì),其實(shí)我能做的很少,好在因?yàn)樯钊肫渲校瑢?duì)于這項(xiàng)工作也有了自己的理解與喜歡。在和畢業(yè)生一起體會(huì)艱辛的同時(shí),也和他們一起經(jīng)歷了收獲的幸福,也算領(lǐng)略到惜福與幸福之間,是有通路的。
在一次分享會(huì)上,一位碩士畢業(yè)選擇讀博士的畢業(yè)生表達(dá)了他對(duì)于科研的理解與喜歡:寫(xiě)一篇學(xué)術(shù)論文,就是要去講一個(gè)也許被人忽略了卻依然很有價(jià)值的故事。為了把這個(gè)故事講得精彩些,我愿意多下些功夫。
他的話讓我不禁想到:自己這么多年與大學(xué)生們相伴走過(guò)的求職路上,是否也積累了被忽略卻依然有價(jià)值的故事?
袁岳先生在一篇《干小活》的文章里說(shuō)道:如果我們思考大活,那大半只是一種念頭,因?yàn)樗伎紘?guó)家大事,并沒(méi)有可練手的機(jī)會(huì)。小活就不一樣,你想做隨時(shí)有得做。對(duì)于服務(wù)畢業(yè)生就業(yè)的小活,于我而言,真是想做隨時(shí)有得做。如果能干一件講個(gè)故事或分享個(gè)案例這樣的小活,故事與案例本身的被忽略有價(jià)值和精彩能兼具誠(chéng)然好,但只顧及一點(diǎn)也還能被接納的話,無(wú)疑在就業(yè)這個(gè)關(guān)系民生的國(guó)家大事和隨手可做的小活中間找到了一個(gè)可靠的連接,不能不說(shuō)是一種幸福。
所以我決定干點(diǎn)小活,把自己認(rèn)為的收獲拿出來(lái)分享。
絕大多數(shù)應(yīng)屆生的求職,要經(jīng)歷的是一個(gè)之前沒(méi)有相關(guān)經(jīng)驗(yàn)的大轉(zhuǎn)變、一個(gè)從無(wú)到有的過(guò)程。對(duì)于身在這個(gè)過(guò)程中的人,內(nèi)心的焦慮來(lái)源于諸多的不確定,也許還來(lái)源于機(jī)會(huì)的不平等,這種焦慮是自然的,也是本質(zhì)的。
作為一個(gè)與求職者相伴的同行者來(lái)說(shuō),力求盡可能多地給予其有共性特征的信息。另外,對(duì)于你們承擔(dān)的壓力希望能給予一些理解。
為了順應(yīng)當(dāng)前讀圖時(shí)代的趨勢(shì),我特意在書(shū)中加了一些插圖,就水平而言,充其量只能算是我自學(xué)階段的習(xí)作,并且是請(qǐng)一位已畢業(yè)的研究生同學(xué)幫忙并手繪而成。對(duì)于那些終日奔波于各個(gè)招聘會(huì)現(xiàn)場(chǎng)的求職者,只消搭一眼的功夫,若能心領(lǐng)神會(huì),也許會(huì)有些微幫助。
鑒于求職過(guò)程的個(gè)性化實(shí)在太突出,求職能力的提升嚴(yán)格意義上來(lái)說(shuō)不在于別人的經(jīng)驗(yàn),而在于體驗(yàn)。就業(yè)成功的真理只有在真正的勞動(dòng)力市場(chǎng)上才能得到最好的檢驗(yàn)!
也就是說(shuō),就業(yè)作為一項(xiàng)關(guān)乎個(gè)人發(fā)展的大事,關(guān)乎其指導(dǎo)技能的各方面的進(jìn)步,絕不僅僅取決于目前稱之為就業(yè)指導(dǎo)者們的進(jìn)步,而在于越來(lái)越多的人及其越來(lái)越豐富的一線體驗(yàn)。我們能做的,而且迫切需要做的,就是不斷地從供大于求的市場(chǎng)現(xiàn)狀帶給我們的無(wú)助、挫敗的狀態(tài)中掙脫出來(lái),從不少前輩不斷尋求光明的經(jīng)驗(yàn)中積攢信心與希望。
要隆重感謝過(guò)去十多年中,所有熱情的畢業(yè)生與我分享的求職故事和精彩體驗(yàn)。也同樣期待你歷練后的經(jīng)驗(yàn)來(lái)更新我的觀點(diǎn)和故事,以便為后來(lái)者帶去更多的從容。
2018年2月1日
大學(xué)與就業(yè)······································································· 1
1.大學(xué)是什么?············································································· 3
2.如果你考上的學(xué)校并不理想··················································· 10
3.大學(xué),到底該怎么讀?··························································· 17
4.如果你的興趣只是打游戲······················································· 23
5.當(dāng)三年版主與寫(xiě)一頁(yè)簡(jiǎn)歷,你選擇哪一個(gè)?········· 29
6.除了厭惡那個(gè)專業(yè),我們還能干點(diǎn)什么?··························· 35
7.如果你依然沒(méi)有找到自己努力的方向··································· 43
8.暫時(shí)沒(méi)有優(yōu)勢(shì)時(shí),如何打造自己的閃光點(diǎn)?······················· 50
求職準(zhǔn)備··························································································· 57
9.打造一字千金的求職簡(jiǎn)歷··············································· 59
10.如何實(shí)習(xí)最有效?································································· 69
11.用人單位為何更青睞學(xué)生干部?········································· 76
12.就業(yè)中的無(wú)我與自我············································· 81
13.關(guān)于面試:你是否也喜歡薄皮大餡的包子?············· 87
14.如何舉重若輕地對(duì)待每一次面試?····································· 94
15.考研、出國(guó)還是就業(yè)?······················································· 100
16.公務(wù)員,金飯碗還是瓷飯碗?····························· 106
17.就業(yè)選擇:向左走?向右走?··········································· 112
18.動(dòng)物賽跑的啟示··································································· 120
19.與就業(yè)相關(guān)的政策與流程,現(xiàn)學(xué)現(xiàn)用來(lái)得及嗎?··········· 125
20.就業(yè),何時(shí)做準(zhǔn)備最合適?··············································· 131
21.就業(yè)準(zhǔn)備如何臨時(shí)抱佛腳?······································· 138
22.什么樣的職業(yè)規(guī)劃才能協(xié)助實(shí)現(xiàn)夢(mèng)想?··························· 142
初入職場(chǎng)························································································· 147
23.用人單位需要什么?··························································· 149
24.白龍馬是怎么煉成的?················································· 154
25.黑馬是怎么煉成的?····················································· 160
26.你把青春安放在何處?······················································· 166
27.如果你還只是在跑龍?zhí)?middot;·············································· 172
28.初入職場(chǎng)者到底要不要接受訂盒飯?······················· 177
29.如何養(yǎng)活夢(mèng)想?··································································· 181
30.如果你還在路上··································································· 187